How will this baby change our relationship?

My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years. In march of 2009 we broke up for a couple of months not knowing what we wanted. We got back together, and were having a great rest of the year together. This past Weekend we were supposed to have our late christmas, as we live 3 hours away from each other because of jobs.On friday, the day before we were supposed to see each other he called me. He told me something had happened, i thought that someone was ill or something. But he told me that when we were apart, he had slept with someone, and that she had just given birth to a girl. It is his baby. I don't know what to do. i love him with all of my heart. We are working on our relationship now, trust, Communication, etc. I have no doubt in my mind that this is the person i want to spend the rest of my life with. But now he has a child with someone else. Im still very speechless.How will this baby change our relationship?
Sad about your encounter, this is a very messy situation with endless problems. Withdraw yourself and have a new life.How will this baby change our relationship?
well hes has a girl now he must see her ,anr you should try and work things through if you can :)How will this baby change our relationship?
IT WILL CHANGE EVERYTHING. JUST DO NOT THINK IT WON'T.

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