Would having a baby change a relationship for the worse?

My fiance are trying to concieve a baby and we are both up for it and more than ready. But have been thinking about how it will change our relationship. Can someone give me some advice?Would having a baby change a relationship for the worse?
It is definately your choice. But in my opinion I would wait until you were married to have a child. You should enjoy each other as a married couple for a year or so and then try. I am sure you have been together for quite some time and it feels like you are married I am sure, but it does change when you get married I think. It did for me anyway. I felt much closer to my husband and it just felt different. The simple fact that you have concerns and are questioning it may be a sign to wait. There is plenty of time to have a baby, why not just enjoy each other and focus on your wedding. Then let baby come!Would having a baby change a relationship for the worse?
it all depends, it should bring you closer together being that its something you both have accomplished and brought in this world together. it takes both parents to raise children. on the other hand, it could ruin the reationship, as in the father would not want to take up his end of the parenting skills, this does happen. I am in no way saying it will definitly happen to you. but if your fiance is agreeing to have children with you, then there should be no major problems as he is ready to be a father and a great dad.Would having a baby change a relationship for the worse?
It does change a relationship. If the relationship is strong, it will take it to a whole other level. You will need that strength between you to get through it. Babies are cute and wonderful, but they're also a lot of work and pressure. If the relationship is shaky, it will make it worse. Babies don't save marriages or relationships.



Good luck.Would having a baby change a relationship for the worse?
more often than not it makes the relationship worse. I think it's more common though when the two of you aren't as well thought out about it as you should be. Who's getting up with the baby? how are you gonna feel when you're stuck in the house all fat and he's going out with the boys? do you both believe in spanking or just one of you does? if you don't have the same beliefs and styles in parenting then your headed for a lot of stress. check out how he was raised, that's how he'll unconsciously expect his kids to be raised 90% of the time. It's really hard on a lot of men to be replaced as the love of their womans life also. Lets face it, the baby comes first and he used to. Of course some people do it really well, but like I first said, more often than not it's the death blow to a relationship.Would having a baby change a relationship for the worse?
having a baby changes alot i mean alot.. you cant do the our time it has to do with both of you and what if you both have different disciplen ..and you can have sex anytime you wantWould having a baby change a relationship for the worse?
It all depends... do you or did you go out a lot? Do you enjoy partying, having a good time, drinking, spending time with friends? If you live it up now and then suddenly have a baby you will miss having a good time when you're at home with the baby. You might be unhappy, resentful, and angry that you can no longer go out with your friends. Your friends will change too - if they don't have children then they will care less about what little Baby can do. They'll get tired of hearing about something they cannot relate to.



If you don't go out, don't drink, don't party then you won't miss it.



I don't drink or party. I work, make dinner, and do college classes online. It might sound like a boring life but I love it. My husband and I have started talking about having a baby. Since neither of us party we wouldn't miss going out and %26quot;having a good time%26quot;. We have a good time relaxing, watching tv, and eating dinner together.



To me, a baby would be an exciting addition but to a party-goer, a baby would keep the person from going out.Would having a baby change a relationship for the worse?
can be good or bad