im starting to get worried because the few people i've known who've had babies experienced some hard times with their boyfriends after the baby.(although im not to sure if they had good relationships to begin with) most of them ended up breaking up. im hoping that becuase we're married and our relationship is pretty strong we wont have as hard of a time. so what can i expect? do you have any good advice to prevent major problems? thanksHow did the birth of your baby change the relationship between you and your significant other?
It kick-started our relationship, again. Your marriage will absolutely change, mostly for the better. The sex will slow down but the love will increase. We're an inseparable three-some with my son.
Don't smother or withhold the child and let him be a real father. He's gonna be rougher and less controlling. Let this happen and don't always inject your safety-first instincts. When he throws your daughter in the air, close your mouth and your eyes.
This will be the toughest job you'll ever love.
Read, understand and follow two books:
http://www.loveandlogic.com/
http://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Kids-WillHow did the birth of your baby change the relationship between you and your significant other?
It renewed our sense of a common purpose.How did the birth of your baby change the relationship between you and your significant other?
you sound like one of you or both of you are to young or just to immature to have taken on the responsibility of a marriage.How did the birth of your baby change the relationship between you and your significant other?
you know, its hard tosay. i have four kids, and my husband wasnt totally there during the pregnancy. he didnt understad quite what i was going through. i recieved NO back rubs and NO visits to the doctor, after the kids came, he was the best father you could ask for, however, not the best in the husband department. I dont want to discourage you, but I wouldnt expect too much out of him. I dont think it is his fault, though, theyre like puppies, if they get one thing right, then they are good. there is nothing you can do about that. They are just men, and I guess you deal with it. p.s. if he has money, then just get a nanny and go shopping. hahahahahaHow did the birth of your baby change the relationship between you and your significant other?
YEAH MY HUSBAND WAS THE SAME WAY HE WASN'T THERE FOR ME WHILE I WAS PREGNANT AND MY SON WAS ACTUALLY BORN 5 WEEKS EARLY AND WAS LITTLE AND HAD A FEW PROBLEMS AND HE WASN'T THERE FOR ME AS A HUSBAND BUT HE IS THE BEST DAD IN THE WOULD TO OUR SON.How did the birth of your baby change the relationship between you and your significant other?
No experience in this department yet so pass this questionHow did the birth of your baby change the relationship between you and your significant other?
It has brought us closer in some ways. Like anything else in life, it's up and it's down but it's a helluva ride.
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